Dating questions can be used for different purposes. One of the most valuable is to use questions to determine the character of the person you’re dating. They can be used to learn about your compatibility in specific areas. Questions can be used to increase your intimacy and romance. They can be used to enhance your dating experiences. And dating questions can be used to improve your relationship.

To get the most benefit, do not split your attention between what they are saying and what you are thinking. You’ll miss too much. There will be plenty of time for evaluation later. Actually, your subconscious mind will do the evaluation and give you an answer via your intuition, or gut feelings. To learn about how to use your intuition, read this article;

To Learn the Basics

  • Where did you grow up?
  • Do you have any brothers or sisters?
  • Where did you go to high school?
  • Where did you go to college?
  • What was your major in college?
  • What are your favorite sports?
  • What sort of work do you do?

To Reveal Character

  • Which three famous people do you admire most?
  • Which three famous people do you NOT respect?
  • Which three famous people do you think are most like you?
  • Which three famous people would you most want to be like?
  • Which three famous people do you most NOT want to be like?
  • What personal values and principles are the most important to you?
  • What friendship values and principles are the most important to you?
  • What marriage values and principles are the most important to you?
  • What community values and principles are the most important to you?
  • What world values and principles are the most important to you?
  • Using single words or phrases, how would you describe yourself?
  • Where do you see yourself in five years to 10 years?

To Discover Similarities 

  • What are your favorite websites?
  • What are your favorite television shows?
  • What are your favorite movies?
  • What kinds of music do you like?
  • Who are your favorite bands?
  • Who are your favorite singers?
  • What kind of magazines do you read?
  • What type of books do you read?
  • What is your favorite food?
  • What is your favorite dessert?
  • What is your favorite snack?

To Determine Compatibility

  • What is your favorite way to spend an evening during your workweek?
  • What is your favorite way to spend an evening during your days off from work?
  • What are your favorite ways to spend a vacation?
  • Is participation in family gatherings and celebrations important to you?
  • What are your spiritual beliefs and how do you practice them?
  • Do you like everything to be well planned and organized or are you more casual?
  • Do set short and long-term goals for yourself?
  • What is the formula for good communication in a romantic relationship?
  • What do you see as the best way for a couple to resolve conflicts?
  • How would you describe your needs for affection in a relationship?
  • How would you describe your needs for sex in a relationship?

To Create Intimacy

  • What is your greatest achievement?
  • What is your greatest disappointment?
  • What is your best attribute?
  • What is your worst attribute?
  • If you could change one thing about yourself, what would it be?
  • What is your greatest passion?
  • What do you enjoy doing the most?
  • What are your top three (3) most important dreams?

To Inspire Romance

  • What are your favorite songs for love and romance?
  • What are your favorite men’s/women’s colognes/perfumes for love and romance?
  • What are your favorite scents for love and romance?
  • What are your favorite foods for love and romance?
  • What are your favorite places for love and romance?
  • Would you describe your perfect love affair from the beginning to making a commitment to each other, if I do the same?
  • Would you describe your perfect romantic evening, if I do the same?

To Increase your dating Fun

  • What are the top three places you would like to go together?
  • What are the top three famous places you would like to see together?
  • What are the top three amusement parks you would like to enjoy together?
  • What are the top three concerts, plays, or musicals you would like to see together?
  • What annual community events would you like to attend together?
  • What annual family events would you like to attend together?
  • Come up with three usual ways we could spend a day or an evening together,

To Enhance Your Relationship

  • Do you have any concerns that you would like to discuss with me?
  • Do you have any questions that you would like ask me?
  • Are there any needs that you have that I am not fulfilling?
  • Are there any passions that you have that I have not fully recognized?
  • Are there any areas where you need my support?
  • Are there any issues about you that I do not fully understand?
  • Are there any relationship skills that I might consider improving?
  • Are there any other areas of my life that I might consider improving?

Use these dating questions to learn about the person you’re seeing, predict the likelihood of a successful relationship, improve your dating experiences, and refine your relationship.